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The Gottman Couples
Weekend Workshop

The Official Gottman Institute 2-Day Workshop For Couples

Based on decades of foundational research. Learn proven skills to deepen your connection and resolve conflict in just one weekend.

Live and in-person in NYCBostonNew JerseyFlorida

The Art & Science
of Love Workshop

One weekend to a better relationship.

Join the thousands of couples who have revitalized their connection at our Gottman Method Couples Workshop, the most trusted marriage retreat program in the country. With locations in NYC, Boston, New Jersey, and Florida, we bring research-based relationship skills directly to you.

This two-day couples workshop offers everything you'd get from months of couples therapy in a single weekend.

No public disclosure or group work. Just private skill-building with your partner.

2
Full Days Complete weekend workshop designed to transform your relationship.
100%
Private No group sharing. All exercises are done privately with your partner.
40+
Years Research Based on decades of scientific research by the Gottman Institute.
★★★★★ 300+ Five-Star Reviews

Real Couples, Real Results

Read what attendees are saying about their experience.

★★★★★

"This is IT! This was all we needed. We were suffering, the kids were suffering, we dreaded family vacations, forget about being alone in the same room! We had tried couple therapy and agreed on 3 things: it wasn't working, was very painful and a total money pit. In one weekend Saul gave us the tools to get out of the gridlock and start a meaningful relationship again. It was also a lot of fun and I'm not even exaggerating! Money and time well spent."

— Stefanie K.
★★★★★

"This workshop saved us hours and thousands of dollars on what we would've spent on couples therapy. As long as you and your partner are willing to put in the work, Saul teaches you everything you need to know to create and stay in a loving marriage. Both mine and my husband's perspective on each other changed drastically and we have a new level of confidence in ourselves and each other that wasn't there before. Thank you, Saul!"

— Ashley and Michael S.
★★★★★

"Literally was the most important workshop I've ever attended. Saul Stern is a game changer! His easy going manner, incredible knowledge of Gottman's work, authenticity and use of humor allowed us to finally learn productive, sustaining skills to cope with the conflict in our marriage. What a gift! Just wish we did this years before. Highly recommend and think it should be mandatory in order to receive a marriage license. Bravo!"

— Debbie P.
★★★★★

"This workshop was beyond helpful and beneficial. Saul's passion for long lasting love & relationships is obvious. He's experienced, entertaining, supportive and seems to have the best approach around. We felt like we got a year's worth of great therapy in one weekend and we're more connected than we've been in years! If you're having relationship concerns, Better Call Saul! This program works!"

— Lynne W.
★★★★★

"What a powerful weekend. The material is outstanding: straightforward, powerful, and Saul is simply the best. For 16 hours over two days, our attention never strayed. We didn't want to miss a word. Saul is the perfect mix of expert, funny, relatable, and compassionate. It's not an exaggeration to say that it changed our lives."

— Katie F.
★★★★★

"One of the most life changing things I have ever done was attend Saul's workshop. My wife and I were on the edge of divorce. We were unable to even talk about the most mundane things without an argument. By the mid point of the last day we had opened up more profoundly to each other than at any other time together. A little over a week later, the love returned. We said 'I love you' for the first time in what seems like years. IT WORKS."

— Ronald H.
★★★★★

"The weekend workshop for couples literally was the lifeline for my marriage. One week prior to attending we were talking about divorce and one day after the workshop we are back on track, making plans for vacations like we used to. Saul is the best couples therapist! He is like the best friend to both partners whom is positive, insightful and encouraging. The tools he taught us are vital in every marriage."

— elaine g.
★★★★★

"We are so fortunate to have had Saul Stern as our coach for this workshop. My wife and I arrived in dire need of help; divorce was on the table. By the end of Day 1 my wife and I were holding hands and joking around comfortably. Thank you Saul for restoring our marriage and for giving my wife and I the tools to deal with life as a team; handling challenges together as they come."

— Scott B.

The Workshop

A comprehensive experience designed to strengthen your bond.

Interactive Learning

Engaging lectures combined with hands-on exercises. Learn essential communication, conflict resolution, and connection-building skills from the Gottman Method.

100% Private

This is not group therapy. All exercises are done privately between you and your partner. No sharing with others required.

Expert Guidance

Work directly with your partner while receiving individualized support from Saul, a Certified Gottman Therapist with 10+ years of experience.

Research-Based

Every technique is backed by over 40 years of scientific research conducted with more than 3,000 couples at the Gottman Institute.

Full Weekend Immersion

Saturday 9:00 AM – 5:00 PM and Sunday 8:00 AM – 4:00 PM. Two full days of focused growth in a comfortable, supportive environment.

Saul J. Stern, LMFT - Certified Gottman Therapist and couples workshop presenter

Presented by
Saul J. Stern, LMFT

Certified Gottman Therapist & Workshop Presenter

Saul J. Stern is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT), Certified Gottman Therapist (CGT) and Certified Gottman Workshop Presenter who specializes exclusively in couples work.

Saul is also a Certified Imago Therapist and adjunct professor of Marriage and Family Therapy. He has presented the Gottman Couples Weekend Workshop consistently for over 10 years across the east coast.

A Comprehensive Learning Experience for Couples

Research-based relationship education. Gain practical skills for lasting connection in a single, focused weekend.

100% Private & Confidential

Unlike other couples workshops, your work is strictly between you and your partner. We provide the safety of a clinical counseling environment without the intrusion of strangers. No sharing, no role-playing - just focused connection.

40+ Years of Research

Every technique taught is backed by scientific study. The Gottman Method draws from 40+ years of research, 3,000+ couples studied, and 200+ published studies. These are proven tools for navigating conflict and deepening intimacy.

Six Months in Two Days

Experience the depth of months of couples work in a single, focused weekend. Two immersive days of learning, connection, and real progress with momentum that lasts.

$795
Per Couple / Full Weekend

One weekend. A lifetime of skills. Experience the equivalent of months of couples therapy in a focused, immersive retreat at a fraction of the cost.

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Complete 2-Day Workshop

Saturday 9:00 AM – 5:00 PM, Sunday 8:00 AM – 4:00 PM with Saul.

Official Gottman Materials

Take home workbooks, card decks, and exercises to continue your growth.

100% Private

All exercises done privately as a couple. No group sharing required.

Choose Your Location

Convenient locations across the East Coast.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Common questions about the workshop experience.

Is this an official Gottman Institute workshop?
Yes, this is the official "Art & Science of Love" weekend workshop authorized by the Gottman Institute. This is not a knockoff or "Gottman-inspired" program. It's the authentic curriculum developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. Saul J. Stern is a Certified Gottman Therapist and Certified Gottman Workshop Presenter.
What is the Gottman Method?
The Gottman Method is a research-based approach to couples therapy developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman over 40+ years of studying more than 3,000 couples. It focuses on building friendship, managing conflict constructively, and creating shared meaning. The method is backed by extensive scientific research and is considered one of the most effective approaches to couples counseling available today.
How is this different from couples therapy?
Traditional couples therapy typically involves weekly sessions over several months. This workshop condenses the core Gottman curriculum into an immersive two-day experience, allowing you to learn and practice skills in a focused weekend setting. Many couples find this format more effective because it provides uninterrupted time to work on their relationship without the gaps between weekly sessions.
Will we have to share personal details with other couples?
No. All exercises are done privately between you and your partner. There is no group sharing, no role-playing with strangers, and no discussing your relationship in front of others. This is a key difference from many couples retreats. We maintain complete privacy throughout the workshop.
How much does the couples workshop cost?
The workshop is $795 per couple for the full two-day experience. This includes both days of the workshop, official Gottman materials (workbooks, card decks, exercises), and access to a Certified Gottman Therapist. Compared to the cost of months of weekly couples therapy or marriage counseling sessions, many couples find this to be a significant value.
Where are workshops held?
We hold workshops in five convenient East Coast locations: NYC (Queens), Long Island, Boston, New Jersey (Woodbridge), and Florida (Boca Raton). All venues are selected for comfort and privacy, with easy access to airports and major highways for couples traveling from surrounding areas.
Who is this workshop for?
This workshop is designed for couples at all stages—whether you're dating, engaged, newly married, or have been together for decades. It's for couples who want to strengthen a good relationship, those looking to reconnect after drifting apart, and couples facing communication challenges. The only requirement is that both partners are willing to attend and participate.
Is this suitable for couples in crisis?
The workshop can be helpful for couples facing challenges, as it provides concrete tools for improving communication and resolving conflict. However, if you're dealing with active addiction, domestic violence, or severe mental health crises, individual therapy is recommended first. If you're unsure whether this workshop is right for your situation, please contact us.

Experience real lasting change in just one weekend.

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