Best Couples Workshops Reviews

"This workshop saved us hours and thousands of dollars on what we would've spent on couples therapy. As long as you and your partner are willing to put in the work, Saul teaches you (directly from Gottman literature) everything you need to know to create and stay in a loving marriage. The exercises along with the lectures really aid in real life application. Both mine and my husband's perspective on each other changed drastically and we have a new level of confidence in ourselves and each other that wasn't there before. Thank you, Saul!"

"Literally was the most important workshop I've ever attended. Saul Stern is a game changer! His easy going manner, incredible knowledge of Gottman's work, authenticity and use of humor allowed us to finally learn productive, sustaining skills to cope with the conflict in our marriage. What a gift! Just wish we did this years before. Highly recommend and think it should be mandatory in order to receive a marriage license. Bravo!"

"This workshop was beyond helpful and beneficial. Saul's passion for long lasting love & relationships is obvious. He's experienced, entertaining, supportive and seems to have the best approach around. We felt like we got a year's worth of great therapy in one weekend and we're more connected than we've been in years! If you're having relationship concerns, Better Call Saul! This program works!"

"What a powerful weekend. The material is outstanding: straightforward, powerful, and Saul is simply the best. For 16 hours over two days, our attention (and everyone else's) never strayed. We didn't want to miss a word. Saul is the perfect mix of expert, funny, relatable, and compassionate. It's not an exaggeration to say that it changed our lives."

"One of the most life changing things I have ever done was attend Saul's workshop. Don't know what stroke of luck led me to find the workshop but my wife and I were on the edge of divorce. We were unable to even talk about the most mundane things without an argument, living separate lives side by side. This was the last shot, to find a professional to guide us through the hurt and reconnect us as a unit. By the mid point of the last day we had opened up more profoundly to each other than at any other time together. A little over a week later we are still using the tools taught and continue growing our friendship and love. Yes, the love returned. 1 week from the last day we said "I love you" for the first time in what seems like years. Suffice to say, our marriage was probably more broken than most but IT WORKS. If anyone out there is in despair or just want to build stronger bonds just do it, no need to search further. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts Saul."

"The weekend workshop for couples literally was the lifeline for my marriage. One week prior to attending we were talking about divorce and one day after the workshop we are back on track, making plans for vacations and nites-out like we used to. We are back on track thanks to the Gottman Institute! Saul is the best couples therapist! He is like the best friend to both partners whom is positive, insightful and encouraging; which is what every couple needs at times of distress. The tools he taught us are vital in every marriage, whether weathering a storm or not. We will be certainly recommending Saul and The Gottman Institute to friends and family."

"We are so fortunate to have had Saul Stern as our coach for this workshop. My wife and I arrived in dire need of help; divorce was on the table. Saul's warm, easing going yet energetic presence was a very good start. It was soon evident how knowledgeable and caring he is. His deep level of commitment to helping couples to heal and grow together is palpable. He runs a well paced, friendly workshop; always on task - moving clearly from one concept to the next. Saul demonstrates each exercise and builds steadily on previous learning. By the end of Day 1 my wife and I were holding hands and joking around comfortably. It felt so good I wondered if Day 2 was necessary - BUT - I was also kinda looking forward to it. Saul gave a warm welcome and hit the ground running first thing Sunday morning. His personal experiences and gift of empathy made it easy for me to trust and believe him. He emphasized how the tools from the second day are the real key to sustaining the benefits of the wkshp. This has been true for us. When my wife and I asked for his guidance during an exercise he was right there and very insightful. Not intrusive - giving everyone their privacy. Thank you Saul for restoring our marriage and for giving my wife and I the tools to deal with life as a team; handling challenges together as they come."

"Wow. I really wasn't sure what to expect from this weekend, but we found such growth and healing from just two short days. It taught us so much about ourselves and each other, and gave us a solid roadmap to growing forward in our relationship with one another. After 18 years as a couple and 15 married, we made gains and made peace with issues that we've been dealing with since the beginning. I would recommend this to anyone! As long as both partners can go into this with an open mind and a willing heart, you can get so much from it. Saul was excellent. His advocacy for married couples is apparent, and his enthusiasm contagious. My husband and I were both very impressed with his leadership during this workshop. If you can swing it, go! It's worth every second, and every penny."

"A great investment in your relationship! If you are reading this review, wondering if this workshop is a worthwhile investment of your time and money, there is only one relevant question: do you have a partner who is willing to attend with you? If the answer is yes, the two of you will find value in this workshop. Whether you are in a horrible place, just grasping for anything to provide shred of relief, or in a great place and want to safeguard that, you will find value in this workshop. The philosophy and materials give you the tools you need to protect and/or repair your relationship. Now let's talk about Saul. He is uniquely situated to be the perfect messenger. He has trudged through the trenches of life and those experiences help him relate to others. But he also feels a deep calling to this type of work. I was grateful to him for allowing me to widen my perspective. I had several "ah ha!" moments. At the end of the workshop, when I thanked him, his response was "no, thank you!" And that is not him being polite—he is genuinely grateful for the chance to help others. Bottom line: 100% worth it!"

"My husband and I recently attended a couples workshop led by Saul, and it exceeded all our expectations. As a couple married for 27 years, we were looking to take our solid relationship to the next level, and this workshop delivered exactly that. Saul, the counselor leading the workshop, was exceptional. He brought energy, humor, and authenticity to the program, making the valuable content and insights both engaging and relatable. His experience as a couples therapist shone through in his realistic understanding of relationship dynamics, and he shared stories that not only illustrated key concepts but also left lasting impressions for future reflection. What impressed us most was the workshop's blend of theoretical knowledge and practical application. As a scientist, my husband particularly appreciated the evidence-based approach and the practical tools provided. The Gottman program box kit we received will serve as an invaluable resource for years to come. Despite being together for nearly three decades, we left the workshop feeling reinvigorated and excited about making our relationship even stronger. The program gave us new perspectives and techniques to enhance our connection, proving that there's always room for growth in a committed partnership. Saul's guidance throughout the weekend was instrumental in creating a safe, productive environment for couples to explore and strengthen their relationships. His expertise and approachable demeanor made the experience both enjoyable and profoundly impactful. We are immensely grateful for this shared experience and can't thank Saul enough for his role in helping us reach new heights in our relationship. This workshop is a must for any couple looking to deepen their connection, whether they're facing challenges or simply want to enrich an already strong bond."

"Every couple should attend this workshop! Saul Stern was our presenter and he was just fantastic! He made everyone feel so comfortable and at ease- it was probably the most fun my husband and I had together in quite some time being caught up with the stresses of life. We have been making time for each other each day ever since- even if it's 5 minutes just to connect. It's the little things that make a positive impact. So, whether you are on the brink of divorce or in a blissful, loving relationship- this workshop gives evidence-based tools for keeping things positive, how to get back to that positive place that diminished over time or how to get through something really hurting deep inside. I went in thinking our issues were out of the ordinary and then learned that all couples deal with similar issues- what a relief! I'm writing this review not only because the workshop was excellent, but because I didn't want to go!!! If it weren't for my husband doing all the research, making all the plans and listening to me complain about how I didn't want to go right up until we pulled into the parking lot, we would have missed out on everything we need- so don't miss out- it's worth it- for every couple! Thank you Saul for such a great experience! Christina"

"We've been to weekly couples therapy sessions without result, therefore I expected more of the same. This was anything but. In one weekend, Saul gave us strategies to defeat communication problems, reoccurring disagreements or misunderstandings and disconnects. Probably most important to me and others; there was no need to raise hands or speak up in front of strangers, Saul did not need anyone to answer questions or put anyone on the spot. It was effortless. I highly recommend the workshop to anyone. Every couple no matter how happy, will improve their relationship in a single weekend. In addition, Saul is funny- he makes the weekend enjoyable and the time fly!"

"I was skeptical about doing a workshop like this, but I know it was important for my marriage, so I agreed to do it. I'm so incredibly glad I did. Although I was nervous, Saul made me feel comfortable from the beginning. He delivered the information in a supportive, knowledgeable and humorous way. Within a short time, I knew I had made the right decision agreeing to go. Saul has a gift, and I'm so grateful I was able to have met him and learned some fabulous tools to get my marriage back on track in a meaningful way. One of the most significant things about the Gottman workshop is that the program gives you tools to make your marriage stronger and work for you, without rehashing and blaming anyone for past mistakes. I'm definitely glad I did this instead of couples therapy. Thank you, Saul!! I truly wish you continued success. God bless!"

"A Healthcare Provider Opinion: Highly Recommend!! I have been a Women's Health-OBGYN Nurse-Practitioner and Nurse-Midwife for over 30yrs in South Florida. I've been providing care for generations of women over their lifespans, delivered over 3000+ babies, provided care to thousands of pregnant couples and helped many couples through experiencing emotionally distressing times. I have come to know 3 important things that #1 All couples have issues and struggles to work through. No one is immune! #2 Many couples don't get the help they really need even though they may have tried several therapists along the way because #3 Many therapists are ineffective, disappointing and quite frankly some just really suck at what they do, even if they charge a lot of money and think highly of themselves. I personally and professionally can tell you that hands down......SAUL STERN IS THE MOST IMPRESSIVE Marriage & Family therapist in South Florida that l have encountered in over 30 years in practice here. He is extremely well trained in the Gottman process and expertly applies that knowledge to help couples utilize this completely science-based process to become winners. After having personally attended his workshop, l can tell you that his knowledge and expertise helps couples facilitate their problem solving skills and provides the framework for how to build a more solid, loving foundation needed to improve any marriage... even the ones that may seem like hopeless disasters. If your marriage is horribly struggling and you need help or you just need to iron out a few wrinkles..... YOU NEED SAUL STERN in your life and the first step to your success is to sign up for this workshop!! The greatest reward for doing so will be a better relationship not only with your Spouse but also with your family, your friends and your coworkers because the tools you will learn can improve ALL your relationships!!! I am NOT Easily impressed at all, so when l am, in a case like this.... l feel morally compelled to share a review like this as l may be motivating someone to an action that may change their life for the better! SAUL IS THE BEST AND THIS GOTTMAN MARRIAGE WORKSHOP IS THE ANSWER YOU'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR (p.s. this review was not requested or solicited and reflects my true personal and professional opinion!)"

"This workshop was LIFE ALTERING for me! I will never be the same person/partner/mother/grandmother/friend as I was before participating in this amazing weekend. Saul Stern was brilliant! His ability to convey a wealth of knowledge in a captivating (and often humorous) manner is unparalleled. He was incredibly successful at moving things at a great pace, explaining everything in careful detail. I took copious notes. I will always carry Saul "in my back pocket" for reference. My current partner (of 4 months) and I are both in our late 60's and widowed. I was with my (late) husband for 49 years before he was tragically hit and killed in a local parking lot in 2018. It was an EPIC romance. I have transformed my grief into gratitude for having loved and been loved for nearly half a century (we met at 15 & 16; married at 19 & 20). I want nothing less than this the "second time around". After attending this workshop, I am confident that the best is yet ahead for me. I desire and deserve extraordinary love once again. And now I know for sure that I can achieve that. Thank you Saul for making that abundantly clear to me. You are a treasure."

"My marriage is the most important thing in my life, so when I started searching for a couples counselor, you can bet I did my research...and because I am a mental healthcare professional myself, I knew the importance of finding someone properly trained in an evidence-based approach. My search led me to the Gottman method, and a weekend workshop seemed the perfect place to begin. I had the highest expectations for the weekend, and I am delighted to say the workshop far exceeded them. The content was everything I hoped it would be and more...but the best part by far was Saul Stern. His teaching style, his insights, and his vast knowledge and skills brought the content to life in truly beautiful and deeply meaningful ways. It is not an exaggeration to say this workshop changed my life. I am so excited to see the ways it will continue to change and grow my marriage. I am incredibly grateful for this exceptional experience. It is worth every penny. Sign up now."

"My wife and I have been together for 5 years, married for a little over a year and for the most part things are great. Sometimes our communication (especially during disagreement) breaks down. Sometimes our sex life becomes monotonous. And sometimes one of us doesn't feel appreciation from the other. We have always been proactive in building a better relationship together. For two years we tried bits and pieces of the Gottman method (and similar exercises) but would eventually find ourselves stuck again. Saul is able to, in a very kind way, remind you that you are not unique in these situations and show you from beginning to end how to practice the Gottman method. I learned my wife and I had been practicing the more advanced exercises but had no idea about the more basic (but most important) relationship building tools in this theory. By the end of day one my wife and I felt more close than we had in months, and by the end of day two we felt confident that we are "masters not disasters". We have all the tools we need to be successful, now we need to practice them daily to make them a part of who we are and we do not need to pay a marriage counselor thousands of dollars to eventually, hopefully find our way. I would recommend this to everyone. Even if you feel you have a "healthy" relationship, this workshop can help you unlock higher levels of companionship. Some of these practices can even be applied to better relationships with your children, friends and co-workers. 10 out of 10 - wish we had done this sooner."

"My husband and I thoroughly enjoyed Saul's workshop. We found it to be extremely helpful in understanding how to better listen, hear, communicate and navigate conflict - especially when we were in a very challenging point in our marriage. Saul is very charming and makes the lecture part of the days enjoyable through his humor and storytelling. He also does a good job at illustrating each point so that it really resonates with you so you can truly understand the significance. I honestly think that it was worth the money, especially because its a 2-day intensive course focused on your marriage. It's nice that throughout the day, you split up in couples to do couples-work based on what Saul has taught. I definitely recommend this workshop, and I will continue to apply what I learned in this course in my marriage as well as all aspects of my life. Thanks, Saul!"

"This is an absolute must for every couple, regardless of their challenges. We are driving home from the weekend wondering…what did we ever have to fight about anyway? Saul's delivery of the Gottman research is spot on, and perfectly blends proven, science based theories with a soft and human approach. I came away more in love with my husband than I've ever been, and finally feel understood. We now have an entire toolkit for working through problems that we will have for the rest of our lives. We are both so thrilled with the outcome."

"Saul is on a mission to enrich your relationship. He is so completely ALL IN on sharing his insights and doing everything he can in a weekend to give the keys to the castle of happiness to each couple who makes the commitment to attend his workshop. We felt there was not a moment wasted. As Saul says, "we talk fast and think fast in the northeast," so we could handle it! Really, he recognizes that he has only a short time to impact the lives of the people in the room and he takes the job seriously. Also, couples who attend a workshop must have some element of desperation, so Saul brings appropriate urgency to the task. I would like to point out that there was NO POINT where I felt like my privacy was invaded. Each couple was on their own to talk through the exercises and no one asked us to share anything with the group. The exercises Saul walked us through were VERY helpful and my husband and I feel we walked away with some amazing tools, both figuratively in the sense of insights into what good relationships look like, and literally in the useful cards and exercises that we took away. Finally, I would like to say that Saul, himself, is clearly the biggest asset of the workshop. The Gottman approach to relationships can probably be learned by reading books, listening to podcasts, piecing things together yourself. What I found incredibly valuable about the weekend was the way Saul digested it all for us, skimming things that we could read on our own, engaging every single couple in the room with his personable style, wit, and true caring, and most importantly, adding his own personal stories and insights that took the Gottman approach to another level entirely. This weekend was worth every penny. I hope that anyone who is looking for practical relationship help, from someone who cares deeply and uses methods that are backed by the best science of our time, will sign up for The Art and Science of Love weekend couples workshop with Saul Stern, LMFT."

"After YEARS of begging my husband to do some work as a couple, we came upon Saul Stern and the Gottman workshop. It was life changing! My husband enjoyed it which is a miracle in itself! It is non-threatening; no need to share in the group, you work only with your own partner and the tools are simple and repeatable. We will be using many of the tools with our children as well. The materials include fun cards and reminders that keep it light and fun and can follow you home. This is NOT one of those things you forget in a few days. My husband and I had breakthroughs in our relationship in the worskshop. I truly learned things I NEVER knew about my spouse. Saul as a leader is engaging and entertaining. He is very real and realistic about marriage as well. Give your marriage the GREATEST GIFT and go to this workshop. It's worth every dime and every minute you spend."

"This workshop is the best thing we've done for our marriage. Saul is knowledgeable, experienced and VERY funny. We felt welcomed and comfortable from minute one. This process changed the pattern of our interactions and gave us real, tangible tools and templates which we can (and DO) use going forward. We have tested these processes since participating in the weekend and can confirm that they work. It's one thing to feel positive about healthy change while in a workshop- but another matter entirely to have those changes stick. My only regret is not having found this sooner. Do it. Go. Every relationship can benefit from this method and Saul is so authentic- he loves and believes in his work and it shows."

"Saul was such a phenomenal presenter who really made the workshop come to life..so genuine, so caring, so intuitive. In addition, his sometimes serious, sometimes humorous -anecdotal stories helped us to hear of other couples struggles and successes. He was absolutely the icing on the cake in this workshop. Besides the great set of tools, workbooks, techniques, in depth exercises, and ideas, we were able to uncover and discover facets of ourselves which were previously unrecognized or unknown. This was definitively a relationship changing and life changing couples experience which enabled both of us to gain amazing insight in a short period of time. We are eternally grateful to Saul and the Gottman method! FIVE STARS!!!!!"

"We just walked out of the 2-day workshop with Saul. There is absolutely no way we would have gotten nearly as much out of this had it not been for his masterful facilitation and engaging style. This is a tough topic to tackle with a room full of strangers and Saul immediately erases any fear or trepidation you might have; even before the workshop begins. My wife and I both feel invigorated on our train ride home and ready to parlay our first 14 years of marriage into a new and exciting future together. If you care about your relationship and you love your partner, drag her/him to this workshop like I was and let the process sink in. Small things.... Saul will make it easy for you!"